Thursday, October 30, 2014

Halloween and other bits of Fall

 This fall is flying by!  I can't believe we are already coming to the beginning of November.  Liam is doing well enough at school, though we did have some challenging times at the beginning of the year with one kid who was not socially adjusting and kept hurting the other kids.  Liam would tell me that he's not very big, but still somehow was being bullied by him.  One day he came home with this:

bite marks through his shirt taken 5 hours after it happened!
 Thankfully the boy is doing a bit better, but still seems to have a lot of issues and outbursts.  Meanwhile Liam is doing Soccer club after nap time on Friday afternoons.  I'm really happy to have gotten him into something as I feel like it's definitely time.  He finds it hard sometimes because there are lots of directions to follow, but it seems to be going well and it's really good for him because he's learning some real skills in listening and following direction as well as what it can look like to play a team sport.  He's the youngest one there so it's also pushing him and his coordination and such.
Liam is at the far back of the 3rd line (shortest one there!) - coach Matteo is a champ to try and teach this age!
Daddy and Liam post soccer hour
My days at home with Eowyn have been interesting.  It feels like she's not stimulated enough here, so if I don't take her out running errands or going somewhere she often gets a little stir crazy.  Every time we take the big kids to school she asks to stay.  I get her together a lot with Jamison, which helps, but it's still a tricky time.  I also meant to make note of her "gloriflied!" word, which cracks me up all the time!  We also did get to share this gorgeous double rainbow right out our windows one morning!  
We could see the start and end on both sides!  Amazing!
With a few weeks of no rain and some beautiful weather we have made a few trips to town and out and about.  A week or so ago we went down town for Liam's haircut and had a leisurely time wandering about afterwards and eating lunch outside!
These two hams ran up and sat here ready to take a photo!
The last couple of weeks have been full on for me with work and lots of extra massages to boot, so unfortunately I missed the excursion to the zoo, but the kids went with friends (Stirling, Grayson, Iona) and had an awesome time feeding the animals and going on the go carts!
Liam sporting a haircut and feeding the monkeys 
Eowyn reaching out!

Happy kids at the zoo
Yes, this zoo has guinea pigs! They loved feeding them!
I love this expression after Eowyn gave the goat some food!
Liam had a blast driving around!
This year TASIS had a full on Halloween event the weekend before Halloween (Because of Academic Travel).  We had an awesome brunch at school with decorations, music and actually good food.  After nap time they got into costume and we went to check out the fall festival.  The TPA decorates the palestra and has all this stuff going on with music, a dunk tank, balloon creations and a lot more.  At first both kids just froze and Eowyn was covering her ears, but they got used to it a bit.  We went trick or treating in the dorms for just 3 rooms, but it was plenty for them to get the experience.  It was fun to do it in a safe environment too, and to keep it limited.  They are definitely into the whole Halloween thing and Eowyn keeps asking to do it again.

My little Witch and Cat
Room on the Broom? Eowyn wouldn't smile! 
Staring at daddy in the dunk tank
Daddy getting dunked on 
Scary Halloween decorations
Everything's better with friends (notice Cassidy's life size balloon replica of herself!)
Trick or Treat!
Trick or Treat  
The crew post trick or treating, pre dinner at the dining hall




Fall Visit from Grandma - Oct, 2014

We loved having Grandma Gail visit us this Fall, despite the fact that I also happened to dislocate my pinky toe AGAIN, the morning after she arrived.  I'm actually astounded that this keeps happening!  This time was once again, on the beloved high chair (we should really get rid of it!)  Anyway, somehow we still managed to do a few things together and I'm thankful that the injury happened when Mims was here and just before a long weekend so that I could slow down and recover a bit.  I am also grateful to all my friends and James and Mims for stepping up and helping me out with getting kids to school and back and everything else!  

So back to Mims visit.  We actually had really good weather for most of her stay!  Hurray!  I was also so happy because she did a Family Virtues Workshop for me and my friends, which I think was really meaningful for all of us.  We are at least now working on a shared languaging, which is so helpful.  Meanwhile, thanks to a long weekend we had a chance to take Mims up to Luzern for a day trip.  It was cool but ended up being a lovely day, and we did all our favorite things - Lunch at hotel Balance, Berliner, Bretzels, Tidbits for take away dinner, and a good amble about the walking area!  Oh and Starbucks!  

Mims, James and the kids also went to the Bellinzona castles and had a great time.  Unfortunately I can't seem to find any of the photos...During the week Eowyn, Mims and I went downtown for a morning so that Mims could get her haircut and then just a wander around.  Generally it was good times.  I love that the kids are more open to having Grandma do things, and things are slowly improving so that Eowyn is willing to be a bit more friendly with her!

Enjoying a new book with Grandma
On our drive up to Luzern
Sunny mountain views 
Luzern is a pretty city
Cheeky Liam
Our Starbucks stop in the late afternoon meant Gelato for the kids!
The old bridge
Great Daddy moment on the river 
Watching the swans
Almost a perfect picture (thanks Eowyn!)
Wandering around the old town is always better with a balloon
Admiring the buildings
Nothing better than a sleeping babe!

Saturday, September 20, 2014

Last bits of August and school starts again

After a fairly dismal rainy August we are back in the swing of things with the new school year.  The weather, surprisingly, has improved somewhat.  I still feel like we were short changed on summer, but such is life.

August was a busy month of preparations.  James getting back to work and getting ready for the school year, and Liam getting ready to go back to Asilo.  We did let Liam go to the second session of TASIS summer camp CDE program, which is 3 weeks long, and he had such a good time.  I think it helped a lot since the weather was so bad, to give him new fun things to do.  He was in a "minnow" and got to be part of a little Italian class and that was a good reminder for him before heading back to his regular school.  They did go on some fun outings to Swiss Mini and a farm where they made their own cheese.  They also made pizza at school and had a little Renn Faire. He did a fair amount of art and sang songs and such.  All in all it went over well, in part because his best friend Drake was there, and in part because people spoke English and that made it easier for him. Of course Eowyn wasn't a fan of all this.  Poor girl was stuck at home with me, running errands and other fun things.  We did do some fun art projects and such to keep ourselves busy, and we even had a mini weekend away for James' father's day/birthday gift.

Liam heading to CDE summer camp - first day! Eowyn didn't want to let go!
Open morning for us to see his camp and his Italian class - Eowyn was very interested
Closing day of summer camp - they had a little singing presentation with the whole CDE
Just before the crazy orientation stuff began we took the kids up to Splash and Spa as a last family day together.  It was so nice - especially with the kids much more confident in the water.  We all had a great time.  Unfortunately we were having so much fun I forgot to take photos!

Since then I've had a lot to get organized, and it's been just busy in that way things are before a rhythm sets in.  We are just now beginning to find a rhythm.  Liam is back at Asilo and his second year seems to be going better than the first.  With some of the older boys out of the school he doesn't have as much aggression coming out, which is a relief.  His camp had him stay till 3pm every day, so he got used to that, and has asked if he can stay at asilo till 3:30pm.  I still feel like it's a really long day for a 4 year old, so I have agreed that twice a week he can stay late.  This way he still has a nap time on the days he comes home early.  They do have nap at school, but it's short, and I know he isn't sleeping.  I thought he might be done with naps entirely, but what we saw when he was at camp, was that as the week went on and he hadn't napped he was just not able to keep it together.  So we are back to resting properly at least when he's home.  He now has all his younger friends at school with him too, which is really sweet.  He naturally tends to watch out for them and do things for them, which I love to see.

Otherwise I have started doing a few workbook things with Liam to try and give him a little bit of learning.  If he were elsewhere he'd be in Pre-K or K and they would be working on things like writing letters and such.  Unfortunately the Swiss system keeps it very much just play at his age, and doesn't allow for the curiosity that kids have to be explored.  Anyway, he's not super gungho but he definitely likes to work on things from time to time.  I also recently got Eowyn a couple of books she could "work" in too, so she can be just like him!
Liam's first day back at Asilo - he is still a Medio and Cristina is gone so it's Simona most days
My work this year is a bit different.  Somehow I managed to add a second parent class a week and it has been very well received.  This was the first week, but I have around 20 people in each class (some are doing it twice a week).  I'm really excited about that, though a bit disappointed to have lost my privates to those classes!  I am also subbing from time to time at the Yoga Roof - a yoga studio down town.  They approached me, and I felt like it would be nice to extend myself past what I do at TASIS a bit.  I am grateful that my summer was as full of yoga for me as it was.  Even after I got back I made it to class 2 or 3 times a week here - a real record for me!

Eowyn is now potty trained and sleeping in a big girl bed!  We transitioned her to her big bed near the beginning of August, just after our weekend in Piemonte.  The potty training started around the same time but the first week we were not very proactive.  It took about 10 days for her to get into the real swing of things, but after a few random attempts at going on the potty, I told her she could start wearing her undies.  It really did the trick.  She had a few accidents with peeing the first day or two and then we've only had 1 other pee accident since then, and it's been a month!  Unfortunately pooping isn't going quite as smoothly.  At least she isn't point blank refusing to poop on the toilet (like Liam did!) She will go on the toilet regularly.  The problem seems to be that she can't tell she needs to go until something is already out.  It's normally small, but it happens quite often.  We've definitely had many days with no accidents in that department, but it's not quite resolved yet.  None the less, we are very proud of her getting through this next phase, and not a moment too soon!  She was almost out of our imported diapers!  Oh, and she has been wearing a diaper at nap time and bed time, but never seems to use it at nap time, which is awesome.  She even woke up one day from her nap and said "Mummy you didn't put a diaper on but I didn't pee in my bed!"
So now we will see what the next few months bring!  I foresee wet diapers at night for a while yet, but there are worse things.  So many changes happening these days!
Eowyn spends a lot of time in the bathroom these days now that she potty trained!
Cool Cat!
Favorite Eowyn words that I can't bring myself to correct:
Snoodie - smoothie
backwehrds
Elavin - Evalyn

Postponed Papa's Day in Pieomonte!

For Father's Day this year I wanted to take James on a trip to Piemonte to this beautiful villa I found - Villa Pattono!  Because of the timing of things, we were in Greece for the actual day and of course had our big Canada trip right after that, so we planned it for August after we got back.  To make it even more fun we decided to invite the Doves to come with us and enjoy a long weekend there.  We left Friday at lunch and were there by mid afternoon, and then had 2 nights to have a good time.  The villa itself has been so beautifully restored.  It's exactly the type of place I like.  It also happens to have a wonderful spa and an amazing heated outdoor pool.  The weather was decent especially in comparison to Lugano, so we truthfully spent more time at the pool than anywhere else, because that was what the kids enjoyed doing most!
Liam 
Having a snack post swim!
Liam and Stirling Monkeying around at the villa pre-dinner
 We had a really wonderful dinner the first evening at an Agriturismo farm called Costa dei Tigli, in the town of Castigliole d'asti.  It was a little family run place and we were the only ones there.  The kids were playing outside on a little play set and we had a chance to sit and enjoy the many many courses of delicious food that came out.  The kids managed so well despite being up till 10pm.

Dinner at Costa Dei Tigli - the kids playing just in front of us
Breadstick buddies 
We had probably 8 different appetizers to try and were practically full before the primi and secondi!
As the night grew long, the kids became a bit wonkier!
 On Saturday we went into the little town where we had hoped to go into the castle that is there.  Unfortunately it was closed, so after trying to walk around a bit we realized the kids would just be happier to go back to the villa and swim.  James, Gavin and Gavin's dad went wine tasting during nap time, and then we spent more time by the pool.  Our dinner the second night was a bit further away and truthfully not quite as impressive as the first meal, but still lovely as we got to sit outside and enjoyed company and good food.
The Castle in Castigliole d'Asti
Peaking into the local butcher
Walking around the castle trying to find a way in!
Checking out the almost ripe grapes at Villa Pattono
Amazingly enough none of them picked the grapes
Some pool time - the pool was heated to 30 degrees and it was warm out, so it was easy to stay in for hours
The loft bedroom in our suite (we were upgraded because they were out of space)
Another guest brought his kitten with him and the kids were loving it! 
Enjoying some sibling time in front of the villa
Sunday morning after the lovely breakfast the villa provides we had one more swim before checking out and heading into town.  There was supposed to be an interesting market but it turned out to be a bit jankety.  So we stopped in at a local restaurant for a quick lunch and then got on the road to head home.  I love that the trip is just over 2 hours.  It makes it the perfect distance for a weekend getaway!